Quote Of The Day

“If you think you are beaten, you are. If you think you dare not, you. Don’t. If you’d like to win, but think you can’t. It’s most certain you won’t. Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man, but soon or late, the man who wins
Is the man who thinks he can.”


Quote Of The Day

“If you think you are beaten, you are. If you think you dare not, you. Don’t. If you’d like to win, but think you can’t. It’s most certain you won’t. Life’s battles don’t always go
To the stronger or faster man, but soon or late, the man who wins
Is the man who thinks he can.”

you are beautiful

Yes! You are amazing! You are beautiful! Your mind is awesome! If he/she can’t see that, then that person doesn’t deserve you and it is just plain senseless to waste your time on someone who doesn’t worth it!
Stay with someone who will always be yours, no matter what, someone who loves you for you. Someone who shows you how special you are. Makes you love life, who points you in the right direction. Someone who has your back when everyone else doesn’t. And stay happy.


“Very few people do this any more. It’s too risky. First of all, it’s a hell of a responsibility to be yourself. It’s much easier to be somebody else or nobody at all.” Sylvia Plath

Oscar Wilde once said “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”

As funny as this might seem, it’s a basic truth.
However, how can you be yourself if you don’t know, understand, and accept yourself first?

Think about what kinds of things you would or wouldn’t like to do, and act accordingly. Find out through trial and error.
That doesn’t mean you should go and do something illegal or morally wrong, all in the name of ‘finding yourself.’
You can take personality tests, but be careful to only take what you want from them so that you do not let such tests define you.

Forget about the past.

“You can not move to the next chapter of your life, if you don’t turn the page.” Unknown.

You move farther and farther away from self-realisation if you keep fixating on the past.

Instead of spending the rest of your life trying to still be that person from the past; rather be that someone who is still you, but grows with the passing of each day.

Grow; to improve and to become wiser.

Forgive yourself for past errors and past behaviours that you’re not so proud of.

Accept that everyone makes mistakes and bad choices and that they’re all in the past, understand that you can’t change the past but you can try your best too make sure it doesn’t happen again.

Get Rid Of People That Don’t Matter

People that do not believe in change. People that expect you to live your life through their expectations of you. The “you Should…”
“you ought…” and the “you Have-to…” people.

These are the people that are incapable of taking on new ideas, learning from others, or growing.

Growth in every new stage of our lives is an essential part of being true to ourselves and to being emotionally healthy and whole.

Try Not To Care So Much

Stop caring about how people see you. Some of them will like you and some of them won’t. It’s almost always impossible to be yourself when you’re caught up in constantly wondering:

“Do they think I’m nice?”
“Does he think I’m fat?”
“Do they think I’m a SLUT?”
“Am I good enough for them?”
“Am I clever enough to be friends with them?”

“If you end up with a boring miserable life because you listened to your mom, your dad, your teacher, your priest, or some guy on television telling you how to do your shit, then you deserve it.” Frank Zappa

It’s impossible to please everyone or for everyone to like you. It’s simple logic, if you change yourself so a person or group of people like you, another person or group may not like you, and you go on and on repeating the vicious cycle trying to please everyone.

When you could be building up your talents and strengths you’d be too busy being a people-pleaser.

As Eleanor Roosevelt said once, “no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

Don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean that no one’s opinion in life matters though. Just be weary of opinions from people who could steer you down the wrong path, even those from people who mean well.

Don’t Lie To Yourself.

We’re all imperfect.

“Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it’s better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” Marilyn Monroe

Be honest; but don’t beat yourself up;
There is a clear difference between being critical and being honest; learn to watch the things you say to yourself ‘cus you are what you think you are.

Say things to yourself like; “I may not be a size 10, but I am so damn Beautiful.”

Calm Down.

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” Maya Angelou

Stop worrying about all the bad things that could happen. So what if you fall flat on your face in a social gathering? You get back up, laugh over it and stand tall.

Be Unique

“Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else.” Judy Garland

Stop comparing yourself to others. If you’re always striving to be someone other than yourself, you’ll never be truly happy.

By comparing yourself with others; you make them your mirror, you give them way too much importance than they deserve.

Love yourself as you are, embrace every single flaw you have.

Never stop looking for your own strengths.

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson


Where am I?

Don’t worry I’m still alive and still on planet earth.

So I received a few mails, tweets e.t.c from my beloved readers asking me if all was well, if I’m okay and that they were anxiously awaiting my next post. A lot happened towards the year 2013 that hindered me from blogging.
But I’m back, and that’s all that truly matters. I am beyond excited for what 2014 is going to bring!

That being said, Merry christmas and Happy new year. Because I never had the chance to tell you, but it is never to late. I’m still going to be taking it easy with Infovinit for a while, until I get fully back on my feet. So please bare with me.
And that’s pretty much it! Thank you to all who’ve asked about me and if I’m okay. I’m good 🙂 wish you all the best. like me on facebook



the truth about men.. a repost of a repost

I just had to share this. Stumbled on this on http://marianjanealumbro.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-truth-about-men-repost.html?m=1

the truth about men.. a repost

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending… Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage… Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals. Look for someone complimentary…
not supplementary.

Dating is fun… Even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says… You should know that: You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he’s not the only one. They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts… ❤