Are you having trouble with your ‘soul mate’?
Do you have doubts about your relationship status?
Well you have come to the right place!
First of all settle down and think about your relationship with this person. Do you genuinely want to be with this person? Or does your partner genuinely want to be with you? Are you with this person because he/she has a lot of money? Or is it the other way round? Or is it because he is so handsome? Or she is so beautiful? Or is it just because the sex is really good? I am not saying that there is anything wrong with having a relationship with someone who has money or is good looking or great in bed. The point I’m trying to make is, if somehow your partner was to loose what you desire in him/her would you still want to be in a relationship with that person? If your very rich boyfriend lost all his money, would you still love him the same way you did when he was rich? Or if your very beautiful girlfriend, had an accident and her face got disfigured would you still love her? You’ll know in your heart if you’re with “the one” or just “the one I’m passing time with.” Apply the same principle to whatever it is that you desire in your partner and answer your questions truthfully. If you believe that you’d stay with this person and love him or her no matter what,and your partner would do the same without second guessing it, Congratulations!! You have yourself a relationship!! But if you are sceptical, or you have doubts about it, or you are certain that you wouldn’t love he/she the same way, I suggest that you don’t waste your time and your partner’s time any further, you guys are approaching a dead end. If you are still not sure, ask yourself these questions;
Do i find myself constantly attracted to other people?
Do I fantasize about dating another person?
Am I in this relationship because I don’t want to be alone?
Am I in a relationship with my partner because I don’t think I can do any better?
Am I afraid to introduce my partner to my family members and my friends?
If you have answered yes to any or all of these questions, Baby wake up and walk away…
- Soul Mates (meraki03.wordpress.com)
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- 73% of People in Relationships Are Settling (friendswithbenefitssucks.com)
- You Complete Me? (mritsa.wordpress.com)
- Learning when to let go (becomingbradshaw.com)
- A Gap! (loventangled.wordpress.com)